Chicago Dungeon

Frequently Asked Questions

 

What should I expect when I get to your dungeon?
Relax, put your feet up, and enjoy the welcoming atmosphere.  Chicago Dungeon is the real thing, a play space designed by a lifestyle participant.  It probably won't be what you expect, because most dungeons are a facade, not a real BDSM residence that is used everyday by the mistress who lives there.  Move comfortably, in private, from room to room, drinking in the incredible surroundings.  Smiles and hugs are free.  :)

 

Will other people be there?
My dungeon is extremely private. I am an independent dominatrix.  It will just be you and me.

Is another BDSM professional available to join us?
I work alone.

What if I have never seen a dominatrix before?
I specialize in making novices feel at ease. Any first time experience is intimidating, particularly when it deals with one's innermost secret desires. It is important to remember that I am a seasoned professional (13 years and counting). You will always be treated with respect and understanding. Exploring forbidden fantasies and fetishes need not be a terrifying prospect. Keep in mind that your scene is completely safe and discreet. Relax and let my experienced hand guide you into the realm of sub-space or the realization of your fetish fantasies.

What will happen during our scene?
Much of what happens during our scene depends upon your needs, desires, and limits, so feel free to communicate them to me.  It is much more enjoyable when you let go and enthusiastically get into the scene.

 

What won't happen during our scene?

I am a BDSM/fetish professional, so I do not provide personal services, such as sex acts, escorting, massage, penetration, or anything else that is illegal in my jurisdiction.  I wear fetish attire and costumes appropriate to our scene.  I do not provide nudity.

If a scene includes corporal punishment, will you leave marks?
I will respect your mark limit.  Your options are no marks, marks that last a few days, or those that linger for a couple of weeks. My expertise allows me to use exactly the right amount of force to leave the desired impressions or lack thereof.

What about your neighbors?
My neighbors are clueless about the existence of my dungeon. I expect you to be judicious, inconspicuous, and virtually invisible, so as not to upset the delicate balance of the secret location I created.  Don't arrive early and sit in your car in front of my house, drawing attention.  Only an indiscreet idiot does that.  If you arrive early, come in and make yourself comfortable while you wait for our appointed time.  Read a magazine, watch TV, grab a bottle of water out of the refrigerator.  Mi casa es su casa.

 

Do I need to bring anything?
If you wish, you may bring your own cross-dressing supplies, medical equipment, enema gear, paddles, and the like. While unnecessary, I find that many clients prefer to provide their own accoutrements. I find this perfectly acceptable.

Do I need to bring you a gift?

Gifts are always appreciated, but unnecessary. I must say, however, that some of my most memorable moments are with those who choose to grace me with a gift. If you wish to gain my favor with a gift, some suggestions are listed below in order of preference.

   Fetish Items:  See the wish list of the persona you are visiting.
   Fragrance:  Si Lolita by Lolita Lempicka
   Flowers:  Orchids, Stargazer Lilies, Tulips, Pink Roses, Peonies, Lilacs
   Candles:  Fruit-Scented Soy Candles
   Gift Cards:  Amazon


Do you have referrals?
Due to the discretion required by my career, referrals are impossible to provide. I believe that my Web sites speak for themselves.

When do you schedule sessions?
My dungeon is open seven days a week.  You must schedule at least 24 hours in advance.  If you are a return client, I may be able to squeeze you in with less than 24 hours notice. 

Do you offer extended scenes?
I offer sessions of any duration (minimum one hour).  I encourage you to session for as long as your budget will allow. Imagine the thrill of spending the night chained at the foot of my bed, confined in a cage in my dungeon, restrained in the hospital bed in my clinic, mummified in a leather or latex sleep sack, or tucked away in the crib in my nursery.  The possibilities are endless.

Is this safe?
My play space is in a very safe, upscale neighborhood with ample, free parking.  You will have a safe word and I will respect your limits.  My facility is spotless and sanitary. I believe in safe, sane, and consensual BDSM/fetishes/domination/role-play.

What if I don't like it?
I am a dominatrix with over thirteen years of professional BDSM experience. I put my heart and soul into every scene. Some people enjoy it more than others, but you will never have a bad experience in my dungeon. Reality dictates that, sometimes, the chemistry is just not there between us. If you feel I am not the one you are looking for, I suggest trying another dominatrix in the area. Choose an independent dominatrix who maintains her own dungeon, has her own Web site, and has years of experience and good reviews under her belt. This will help you avoid winding up with a clueless wannabe.

What if I change my mind, once I get to the dungeon?
In the event you change your mind, feel free to leave, but don't even think of ever returning.  Also, have the common courtesy to compensate me for my time, since I turned down other clients to see you.

What if I cannot make a scheduled appointment?
By all means, call or e-mail to let me know! I will not be upset. I get upset when I spend over two hours preparing myself and the appropriate theme room for a scene and sit around waiting for a no show. I have never been able to comprehend how a seemingly sane person can commit to a scene, then not show up for it and give me a courtesy call or e-mail to inform me of the cancellation. This is my biggest pet peeve. It is rude, crude, and socially unacceptable to schedule a scene, then stand me up without warning. A quick call or e-mail to let me know you cannot make it is no problem. Standing me up without notification is a huge problem. Do NOT even bother to call me, after the fact, with a weak excuse, and try to reschedule. Mistresses run in a tight circle. Your reputation is on the line. We discuss trouble makers and no shows, so behave and show some respect. This is our job! It is not a hobby or a joke. Your rudeness will come back to haunt you. You will be blacklisted.

What should I do to prepare for a scene?
Shower and brush your teeth.  If necessary, you may shower or clean up at my dungeon.  Avoid alcohol for 24 hours prior to your session.  Do not arrive under the influence of drugs or you will be asked to leave (ZERO TOLERANCE).  Eat a light meal or snack and drink plenty of water before your scene.  Avoid garlic, onions, and fast food for at least 24 hours prior to your scene.

Am I weird for wanting to do this?
No, and you are not alone. Unfortunately, our society has fostered an air of shame around fetishism, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle choices. Be proud of who you are. I have heard, seen, and done it all over the years. Nothing shocks me. Don't be shy about expressing your fantasies or explaining your fetishes to me. I will listen attentively and try to accommodate you. I suggest reading any book by Dr. Gloria G. Brame or Nancy Ava Miller, who offer loads of insight into the BDSM lifestyle and fetishism. There are many other informative books out there. Try a search for "BDSM" on Amazon.com.

Do you do scenes with couples or females?
Yes, I see females, but I am extremely selective about this.  I do not entertain couples.

Do you do scenes with transsexuals and transvestites?
I enjoy sessions with transgender individuals.  I especially enjoy being served by a tranny slut, cross-dresser, rubber doll, sissy baby, or sissy maid.

 

Is your facility receptive to the pansexual community?
I am very sensitive to the needs of LGBTI clients.

May I ever become your personal slave?
Extraordinarily exceptional submissive persons who meet my criteria will be offered the opportunity to apply as personal slaves. I am very picky about whom I allow to serve me on a personal basis.  It is a one in a million chance that you will please me enough to enter my personal life.

Will you travel to my location?
I love to travel.  E-mail me to inquire about arrangements.