What should I expect when I get to your dungeon?
Relax, put your feet up, and enjoy the welcoming atmosphere. Chicago Dungeon is the real thing, a play space designed by a lifestyle mistress. It probably won't be what you expect, because most dungeons are a facade, not a real BDSM residence that is used everyday by the mistress who lives there. Move comfortably, in private, from room to room, drinking in the incredible surroundings. Smiles and hugs are free.
Will other people be there?
My dungeon is extremely private. I am an independent dominatrix, so we will be the only ones there.
Is another BDSM professional available to join us?
I work alone.
What if I have never seen a dominatrix before?
I specialize in making novices feel at ease. Any first time experience is intimidating, particularly when it deals with one's innermost secret desires. It is important to remember that I am a seasoned professional (20 years and counting). You will always be treated with respect and understanding. Exploring forbidden fantasies and fetishes need not be a terrifying prospect. Keep in mind that your scene is completely safe and discreet. Relax and let my experienced hand guide you into the realm of sub-space or the realization of your fetish fantasies.
What will happen during our scene?
I refer to this as "design your own scene." Much of what happens during our scene depends upon your needs, desires, and limits, so feel free to communicate them to me. It is much more enjoyable, when you let go and enthusiastically get into the scene, because it's exactly what you wanted.
What won't happen during our scene?
I am a professional dominant. I do not provide personal services, such as sex acts, escorting, massage, penetration, or anything else that is illegal in my jurisdiction. I wear fetish attire and costumes appropriate to our scene. I do not provide nudity.
If a scene includes corporal punishment, will you leave marks?
I will respect your mark limit. Your options are no marks, marks that last a few days, or those that linger deliciously for a couple of weeks or longer. My expertise allows me to use exactly the right amount of force to leave the desired impressions or lack thereof.
What about your neighbors?
My neighbors are clueless about the existence of my dungeon. I expect you to be judicious, inconspicuous, and virtually invisible, so as not to upset the delicate balance of the secret location I created. Do not arrive early and sit in your car in front of my house, drawing attention to yourself. Only an indiscreet idiot does that. If you arrive early, come in and make yourself comfortable, while you wait for our appointed time. Read a magazine, watch TV, grab a bottle of water out of the refrigerator. Mi casa es su casa.
Do I need to bring anything?
If you wish, you may bring your own cross-dressing supplies, medical equipment, enema gear, paddles, and the like. While unnecessary, I find that many clients prefer to provide their own accoutrements. I find this perfectly acceptable.
Do I need to bring you a gift?
Gifts are always appreciated, but unnecessary. I must say, however, that some of my most memorable moments are with those who choose to grace me with a gift. If you wish to gain my favor with a gift, some suggestions are listed below in order of preference. I love surprises.
Fetish Items: See the wish list of the persona you are visiting.
Fragrance: Si Lolita by Lolita Lempicka
Flowers: Orchids, Pink Tulips, Pink Roses, Pink Peonies, Lilacs
Candles: Fruit-Scented Soy Candles
Gift Cards: Amazon Gift Card
Do you have referrals?
Due to the discretion required by my career, referrals are impossible to provide. I believe that my websites speak for themselves.
When do you schedule sessions?
My dungeon is open seven days a week. You must schedule at least 24 hours in advance. If you are a return client, I may be able to squeeze you in with less than 24 hours notice.
Do you offer extended scenes?
I offer one hour to one month sessions. I encourage you to session for as long as your budget will allow. Imagine the thrill of spending the night chained at the foot of my bed, confined in a cage in my dungeon, restrained in the hospital bed in my clinic, mummified in a leather or latex sleep sack, or tucked away in the crib in my nursery. The possibilities are endless.
Is this safe?
My play space is in a very safe, upscale neighborhood with ample, free driveway and garage parking. You will have a safe word, when we session. I will respect your limits, but sometimes safely and thoughtfully push them. My facility is spotless and sanitary. I believe in safe, sane, and consensual play, as well as risk aware consensual kink.
What if I don't like it?
I am a dominatrix with over twenty years of professional experience. I put my heart and soul into every scene. Some people enjoy it more than others, but you will never have a bad experience in my dungeon. Reality dictates that, sometimes, the chemistry is just not there between us. If you feel I am not the one you are looking for, I suggest trying another dominatrix in the area. Choose an independent dominatrix who maintains her own dungeon, has her own website, and has years of experience and good reviews under her belt. This will help you avoid winding up with a clueless wannabe or scam artist.
What if I change my mind, once I get to the dungeon?
In the event you change your mind, feel free to leave. Have the common courtesy to compensate me for my time, since I turned down other clients to see you.
What if I cannot make a scheduled appointment?
By all means, call or text to let me know. I will not be upset. I get upset when I spend over two hours preparing myself and the appropriate theme room for our scene, only to sit around waiting for a no show. I do not comprehend how a seemingly sane person can commit to an appointment, then not show up for it without giving me a courtesy call or text to inform me of the cancellation. This is my biggest pet peeve. It is rude, crude, and socially unacceptable to schedule a session, then stand me up without warning. A quick call or text to let me know you cannot make it is no problem. Standing me up without notification is.
What should I do to prepare for a scene?
Shower and brush your teeth. If necessary, you may shower or clean up at my dungeon. Avoid alcohol for 24 hours prior to your session. Do not arrive under the influence of drugs or you will be asked to leave (ZERO TOLERANCE). Eat a light meal or snack and drink plenty of water before your scene. Avoid garlic, onions, and fast food for at least 24 hours prior to your session. Chew a piece of minty gum or suck on a breath mint on your way to see me. I have an acute sense of smell, so be mindful of your oral hygiene and body odor prevention. I do not mind cologne. If you are sensitive to fragrances, let me know prior to your session, so I can take precautionary measures.
Am I weird for wanting to do this?
No, and you are not alone. Unfortunately, our society has fostered an air of shame around paraphilia (fetishism, BDSM, kink, and alternative sex practices). Be proud of who you are. I have heard, seen, and done it all over the years. Nothing shocks me. Don't be shy about expressing your fantasies or explaining your fetishes to me. I will listen attentively and try to accommodate you. I suggest reading anything that offers insight into your kink. There are many informative books and websites out there. Try a search for "BDSM" on Amazon. One caveat - don't believe everything you read or see. Most books on the subject are garbage, but there are some very helpful ones too. Television and movies often depict very inaccurate portrayals of paraphilia. The same goes for adult videos and magazines. Be mindful. Be careful. Use common sense.
Do you do scenes with couples or cisgender females?
Sorry, but I do not.
Do you do scenes with transsexuals and transvestites?
I enjoy sessions with trans individuals tremendously. I especially enjoy being served by a tranny slut, cross-dresser, rubber doll, sissy baby, or sissy maid.
Is your facility receptive to the pansexual community?
I welcome all clients, no matter how they sexually identify.
May I ever become your personal slave?
An extraordinarily exceptional submissive person who meets my criteria will be offered the opportunity to apply as a personal slave. I am very picky about whom I allow to serve me on a personal basis. There is a one in a million chance that you will please me enough to enter my personal life.
Will you travel to my location?
I love to travel. E-mail me to inquire about arrangements.